How TheTrusty Works

Respect. Privacy. Absolute honesty. Together, we bring hearts together politely and in line with shared values to help you meet the right partner for a lifetime.

Your story matters. Your privacy matters. Your honesty matters.
Join the first platform built to protect all three.

Six Simple Steps

Clarity builds trust. Here’s exactly what happens after you join.

Sign Up Securely

Create an account with email or Google, then accept our Privacy Policy & Terms.

Build Your Profile

Share your background, values, lifestyle, and partner preferences.

Invite & Verification

Our team reviews key details and Invites you in for a Info check

Thoughtful Matching

We suggest compatible profiles based on values, goals, and life plans.

Connect Respectfully

Chat directly on our platfrom always with privacy and respect.

Next Steps

When it feels right, plan a meeting or family‑guided introduction. We’re here to help.

Verification & Visibility

Honesty is our foundation. Verified profiles earn more trust and better matches.

What can be verified?

  • Identity (name, date/place of birth, nationality)
  • Education & employment (when applicable)
  • Lifestyle declarations (e.g., smoking, alcohol)

Why verify?

  • Increase trust with potential partners
  • Improve match quality and visibility
  • Demonstrate honesty—our highest value

Note: Some information cannot be fully verified. We rely on user honesty and community reporting. Intentional misrepresentation may lead to account suspension.

Privacy & Safety

We protect your data under GDPR (Netherlands). You stay in control.

Data Control

Access, correct, or delete your data any time. Manage visibility in your settings.

Secure by Design

We use encryption, EU-based hosting, and strict access controls.

Honesty First

False information harms trust and may result in removal. Be authentic.